A lot of women ask me, Mette: “How do I get this guy to fall in love with me? I’m afraid of being rejected”
My answer is always that there is no recipe, but that there are some things you can do and things you should not do to avoid your fear of rejection.
Because you may have an intense chemistry with one, but the attraction slowly disappears after a while.
So, what makes us fall in love?
Below you can find the key points needed to move you from attraction to falling in love:
If you want a man to fall in love with you, get an independent life you love that he can only dream of being a part of.
Then, take him on interesting, fun or different dates that raise the adrenaline. Achieve intimacy by asking him questions with sexual undertones. Remember to give him heartfelt compliments. And if nothing else, you will have a lot of good experiences with him you have chosen.
Let me get something clear: saying it will pay of playing “hard to get” is a myth. What men like, on the other hand, are women who have a life.
Men need to know if you are testing him to see how he behaves.
If you are always available, you show him that you are giving him to him, without any control over whether he is worthy enough for you.
A woman who plays “hard to get” shows signs that she controls him to be worthy enough for you. It is controlling and manipulating and often ends in drama.
Playing games is no fun, as the chances of it ending up in drama is great. That is the opposite of what you wanted – It is inappropriate and confusing.
Instead, you should focus on your own life.
Fill your everyday life with things you love to do.
Get busy reaching your goals.
Make sure you don’t stop working or move your focus away from your friends as soon as you receive a text message.
Leave it for a while (as long as you can). You must focus on what you are doing and live your life.
Then he’ll probably show up as he wants to be part of your amazing life.
Self-confidence is important
When you are with someone you do not know, you are not relaxed but often a little more nervous.
Avoid suppressing that feeling, let it be! Feel when you are in the situation, what you really feel about being there.
The most appealing thing to another person is self-confidence. You can actually be sure of yourself, even if you are nervous.
No man can fail to show their interest in an attractive woman. Make yourself a little extra delicious.
We are naturally attracted to the other sex. The only way to turn a good friendship into more is if the other person sees you in an intimate and sexual light.
That’s what separates friends from lovers.
See him: Compliment the man, for instance by saying he is “amazing”. It makes him feel wonderful.
NOTE: If you say this in front of others, he thinks he can “take over the whole world”. The better you make him feel, the more he will like you. Keep it honest and real, but don’t hold back to compliment him.
You will grow as a couple by seeing each other in the relationship and doing interesting things together.