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The Mistakes Of Others Don’t Make You Right

5 years ago by MettesUniverse

Yes, they make mistakes. Yes, they are annoying. Yes, they are different. Who? Those who don’t live their life as you do. But remember, being capable to find someone else’s mistakes is not the road to more self-love. It is the ...

The Apology You Never Got

5 years ago by MettesUniverse

True strength! Mette, when am I strong? How do I know I have moved? Where can I see that I have become stronger mentally? My own little test is: Are you able to forgive someone who is not sorry? And have you managed to accept an apolo...

You miss it so much it hurts!

5 years ago by MettesUniverse

Do you know the feeling? You miss it – you miss it so much that it really hurts. But you know that if you back to your old habit, you will never get what you really want. Since, what you are missing doesn’t give you what you are hoping for ...

And She Lived Happily Ever After

5 years ago by MettesUniverse

Would you like to live happily ever after? Then you've come to the right place, because I have the answer. I know how you can make it come true with 100% certainty. With 100% security. Here’s the key: Become the master of you...

You Are Revealing Yourself…

5 years ago by MettesUniverse

Your complaints says a lot about you. In fact, it doesn't say much about what you complain about. But it really says a lot about you. Why? Because a human with surplus energy will never complain. A person who is well will not demean ot...

Realize What You Are Doing To Yourself!

5 years ago by MettesUniverse

The worst thing you can feed yourself with is not bad food. It is your inner dialogue. Nothing - as in NOTHING - is worse than the bad, negative things you tell yourself! Today I want to give you a serious task. Count every time you think nega...

When Enough Is Enough!

5 years ago by MettesUniverse

There comes a time when you just know enough is enough. There will come a time. There comes a time when it no longer makes sense to do the best you can. There comes a time when you simply can’t just look through fingers with something. There comes ...

How To Deal With Feeling Unwanted

5 years ago by MettesUniverse

Feeling or being unwanted is not a good feeling. I think we all can agree with that. In fact, feeling unwanted feels terrible and is difficult to deal with. But remember - when you have this feeling of being unwanted or unloved, there is always...

What Complaining Does To Your Mind

5 years ago by MettesUniverse

Complaining says a lot about you. In fact, it doesn't say much about what you're complaining about. But it says a lot about you. Why? Because a human with surplus energy will never complain. A person who is well off will not diminish others. ...

The Power Of Thankfulness

6 years ago by MettesUniverse

Do you ever feel the power of thankfulness? Are you satisfied with life? Do you have everything you dream about? Could it be better? Or do you feel that something is missing - or that you are about to lose something? No matter how you ...

What Manipulation Looks Like

6 years ago by MettesUniverse

Manipulation is a Latin word meaning: "by hand". From its origin it referred to the skill of handling objects by hand. Today, the definition has another meaning. Manipulation means that consciously someone is playing puppeteer towards you and omit to tell y...

Benefits Of Shadow Work

6 years ago by MettesUniverse

Before you even start working with your Shadows, you need to know that it is some of the most transcendent, but also self-loving you can experience and learn. Your shadows are aspects of yourself that you can't be with - but what you don't want to...

How To Move On From A Breakup

6 years ago by MettesUniverse

The worst thing I know is to be heartbroken. It hurts so bad. When love stops, it just hurts. And sometimes it can hurt really bad. Just remember, no matter how hard the heartbreak feels it’s a natural process. This process makes you wiser and stro...

A life reminder

6 years ago by MettesUniverse

Are You Self-Loving Enough For Your Children?

6 years ago by MettesUniverse

What do I mean by that? I see many mothers smothering their children. They give them healthy nutritious food, sign them for gymnastics, swimming etc. They give them the opportunity to get exercise, grow a social network because they love them unconditional...

Stop Eating Your Self-Worth Away

6 years ago by MettesUniverse

FACTS: Life is tough - food is comforting! 10 things that indicate you are eating your feelings: 1: Out of the blue you stand and glance into the fridge 2: Food fills your thoughts, even if you are full 3: You talk passionately about food 4: Food in...