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The Mistakes Of Others Don’t Make You Right
- November 28, 2019
- by MettesUniverse
The Apology You Never Got
- November 13, 2019
- by MettesUniverse
You miss it so much it hurts!
- November 01, 2019
- by MettesUniverse

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The Mistakes Of Others Don’t Make You Right

4 years ago by MettesUniverse

Yes, they make mistakes. Yes, they are annoying. Yes, they are different. Who? Those who don’t live their life as you do. But remember, being capable to find someone else’s mistakes is not the road to more self-love. It is the ...

The Apology You Never Got

4 years ago by MettesUniverse

True strength! Mette, when am I strong? How do I know I have moved? Where can I see that I have become stronger mentally? My own little test is: Are you able to forgive someone who is not sorry? And have you managed to accept an apolo...

You miss it so much it hurts!

4 years ago by MettesUniverse

Do you know the feeling? You miss it – you miss it so much that it really hurts. But you know that if you back to your old habit, you will never get what you really want. Since, what you are missing doesn’t give you what you are hoping for ...

And She Lived Happily Ever After

5 years ago by MettesUniverse

Would you like to live happily ever after? Then you've come to the right place, because I have the answer. I know how you can make it come true with 100% certainty. With 100% security. Here’s the key: Become the master of you...

You Are Revealing Yourself…

5 years ago by MettesUniverse

Your complaints says a lot about you. In fact, it doesn't say much about what you complain about. But it really says a lot about you. Why? Because a human with surplus energy will never complain. A person who is well will not demean ot...

Realize What You Are Doing To Yourself!

5 years ago by MettesUniverse

The worst thing you can feed yourself with is not bad food. It is your inner dialogue. Nothing - as in NOTHING - is worse than the bad, negative things you tell yourself! Today I want to give you a serious task. Count every time you think nega...

When Enough Is Enough!

5 years ago by MettesUniverse

There comes a time when you just know enough is enough. There will come a time. There comes a time when it no longer makes sense to do the best you can. There comes a time when you simply can’t just look through fingers with something. There comes ...

Why It Doesn’t Matter Who You Love

5 years ago by MettesUniverse

It doesn't matter who you are together with. It doesn't matter who you send all your feelings to. It doesn't matter who you love. If you are not your own girl or boyfriend before, you are embarking on a hopeless project. Woah, big w...

4 Things To Move From Mentally, To Get More Life in Your Life

5 years ago by MettesUniverse

Anything that tends to seem problematic gives resistance in your life. If you know me, you know that I always say: "Move away from resistance and seek where it is nice to be". The better you are at releasing resistance the better at lettin...

How To Deal With Feeling Unwanted

5 years ago by MettesUniverse

Feeling or being unwanted is not a good feeling. I think we all can agree with that. In fact, feeling unwanted feels terrible and is difficult to deal with. But remember - when you have this feeling of being unwanted or unloved, there is always...

What Complaining Does To Your Mind

5 years ago by MettesUniverse

Complaining says a lot about you. In fact, it doesn't say much about what you're complaining about. But it says a lot about you. Why? Because a human with surplus energy will never complain. A person who is well off will not diminish others. ...

My Life Sucks: How To Start Feeling Better

5 years ago by MettesUniverse

This is really not to offend or insult anyone, since my dream in life is to help as many as possible, but I will say this anyway: If the you keep saying to yourself: "my life sucks" and you always feel like the world is against you, you are against yourself...

5 Signals That You Are A Pleaser

5 years ago by MettesUniverse

I always say, when you are a pleaser, you sell out of your own strength! Are you one of those who like when others think you are incredible? Then read along. Because there is nothing wrong with that. What is wrong, is when the accomplishment of ...

How To Avoid Self Doubt

5 years ago by MettesUniverse

When speaking of being unsecure, there are several things that can enhance your self-doubt. As a psychologist, I have listed the biggest sinners below to help you identify them. How to avoid becoming more self-doubting: Don’t try to re...

Self Love Quotes To Build Confidence

5 years ago by MettesUniverse

To be self-loving is one of the most important accomplishments in life. Though it can take a lifetime. Why is it that we are so judging towards ourselves, when the most logical is that we are deeply in love with the ones we share this one life with. Includi...

5 Reasons You Are Fearing Love

5 years ago by MettesUniverse

What makes us afraid of loving and binding us to another person when we want one? In my work with women and their ability for self-love, there is a pattern that shows up again and again when they fear to go close to love. Being afraid of love can be a big ...

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How To Break Out Of Victim Mentality

5 years ago by MettesUniverse

Do you want to be a strong woman? Then break up with the victim mentality. One of my key points is that it is never a pity for you. It can be a shame. But not a pity. It's a pity and I feel sorry for a victim! A strong woman says: “That was a shame”, ...

The Power Of Thankfulness

5 years ago by MettesUniverse

Do you ever feel the power of thankfulness? Are you satisfied with life? Do you have everything you dream about? Could it be better? Or do you feel that something is missing - or that you are about to lose something? No matter how you ...

What Manipulation Looks Like

5 years ago by MettesUniverse

Manipulation is a Latin word meaning: "by hand". From its origin it referred to the skill of handling objects by hand. Today, the definition has another meaning. Manipulation means that consciously someone is playing puppeteer towards you and omit to tell y...

Benefits Of Shadow Work

5 years ago by MettesUniverse

Before you even start working with your Shadows, you need to know that it is some of the most transcendent, but also self-loving you can experience and learn. Your shadows are aspects of yourself that you can't be with - but what you don't want to...

The Mistakes Of Others Don’t Make You Right

The Apology You Never Got

You miss it so much it hurts!

Most popular categories

The Mistakes Of Others Don’t Make You Right

The Apology You Never Got

You miss it so much it hurts!

And She Lived Happily Ever After

You Are Revealing Yourself…

Realize What You Are Doing To Yourself!

When Enough Is Enough!

Why It Doesn’t Matter Who You Love

4 Things To Move From Mentally, To Get More Life in Your Life

How To Deal With Feeling Unwanted

What Complaining Does To Your Mind

My Life Sucks: How To Start Feeling Better

5 Signals That You Are A Pleaser

How To Avoid Self Doubt

Self Love Quotes To Build Confidence

5 Reasons You Are Fearing Love

How To Break Out Of Victim Mentality

The Power Of Thankfulness

What Manipulation Looks Like

Benefits Of Shadow Work

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