It doesn’t matter who you are together with.
It doesn’t matter who you send all your feelings to.
It doesn’t matter who you love.
If you are not your own girl or boyfriend before, you are embarking on a hopeless project.
Woah, big words.
Yes it is.
If you are not comfortable with you, you are not in balance.
In imbalance, you are looking for something or someone to help you.
What you are often looking for is someone to give YOU something.
You need love, care, compliments, etc., etc. from someone else.
It is wonderful to be loved.
But if the need to be loved comes before the need to love yourself, you are on a dangerous direction.
A direction that send you out towards a circle of addiction
Addiction is not love.
Addiction is one of the most self-destructive you can be.
Addiction is like a solvent you send beyond your life.
So who you love doesn’t matter
Who you love doesn’t matter as long as you’re in love with a dream that they should:
- Give you something
- Save you
- Fulfil your needs
– before you fulfil your needs yourself.
I have been love dependent myself.
I have spent many years trying to please and stand where I secured the love of others because I couldn’t find out to give it to myself. To love myself.
I first discovered how bad it was when I had driven myself completely into extremely self-destructive patterns.
The journey back to myself has been tough, but also marvelous and amazing.
This boost is a product of my own journey.
It has cost a price to start setting my own limits.
For everything has a price.
Remember: The same has love addiction.
I’ve learned that I need to save myself.
But I want you to know the same thing.
Come on, you can do it.
Move from resistance.
Search towards the light and heat.
Think up, up, up.
Give to yourself before giving to others.
Fill your own cup.
Become the one you want to meet yourself.
The magic lies in the fact that when you stand strong with all the prices it can have, you have a completely different profit to give to those around you.
You want to love others rather than being hungry for the attention and love of others.
Whatever you do – stand there…
Start small by creating a really nice day for you, and you automatically create a beautiful day for those around you.